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		<title>I loved Freeway</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2009/10/27/i-loved-freeway/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 03:55:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mom found this. It was somewhere in her house, probably in the basement with a bunch of other old mail. I definitely played Freeway, a lot. Like any good addictive game, it would still be there, long after I stopped playing, when I closed my eyes. Seeing the picture and screenshot in the &#8220;Summer [...]]]></description>
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<p>My mom found this. It was somewhere in her house, probably in the basement with a bunch of other old mail. I definitely played Freeway, a lot. Like any good addictive game, it would still be there, long after I stopped playing, when I closed my eyes. Seeing the picture and screenshot in the &#8220;Summer 1982 Activision Video Game Cartridge Catalog&#8221; made the memories come flooding back. Now I have to figure out what I should put the patch on.</p>
<p>The text of the letter:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Dear Fan of FREEWAY™ by ACTIVISION:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Congratulations! You guided your chicken through traffic at least 20 times, which qualifies you as an official member of the Activision &#8220;Save the Chicken Foundation.&#8221;  We are pleased to reward your traffic dodging achievemets with the enclosed patch.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Your name has been added to our mailing list and we will keep you posted on new Activision game cartridges as they become available.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thank you for sharing your accomplishment with us.  We hope you&#8217;ll try other video games by Activision and write us about your experiences with them.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Yours truly,</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Jan Marsella<br />
Customer Relations</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">JM<br />
Enclosure</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">PS. Please read the enclosed Heat Seal Instructions carefully. Children should not attempt to heat seal the patch to clothing.  Improper use of an iron (or related appliance) may result in damage to clothing, or bodily harm.  This patch may also be sewn to any fabric.</p>
<p>Also be sure to check out the scans of the Activision catalog at <a title="flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/sets/72157622554861639/" target="_blank">flickr</a>.</p>
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		<title>flights are booked&#8230; and I hate pdfs</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2009/10/21/flights-are-booked-and-i-hate-pdfs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 23:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So, I&#8217;ve had to create and send PDFs to coworkers this week. I hate PDFs. I believe that they are the devil&#8217;s file format. Why would I sink to such a level, you ask? Because my boss doesn&#8217;t have/can&#8217;t operate Excel (and doesn&#8217;t have the web savvy to use Google Docs). There&#8217;s lots of rumblings [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, I&#8217;ve had to create and send PDFs to coworkers this week. I hate PDFs. I believe that they are the devil&#8217;s file format. Why would I sink to such a level, you ask? Because my boss doesn&#8217;t have/can&#8217;t operate Excel (and doesn&#8217;t have the web savvy to use Google Docs). There&#8217;s lots of rumblings about our boss, but that&#8217;s really nothing new. I hate the feeling of instability it lends to my job, though. I&#8217;d totally go back to a tech job, if I could find one that was in a laid back environment and paid well&#8230; on the other hand, I&#8217;d really go for a position at a place with high ropes that had steady work for two or three seasons, even if it paid the same as I&#8217;m getting, now.</p>
<p>In other news, we&#8217;ll be back on the east coast, doing the family thing and trying to catch up with all the people who I&#8217;ve neglected to see on my last couple trips that way from the day after Christmas until about the 30th. Let me know if you have time in there and want to reserve a day or evening, now.</p>
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		<title>&#8216;tween-season coming soon</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2009/05/10/tween-season-coming-soon/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 02:23:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am looking forward to sleeping in more than one day a week&#8230; and being able to take some mini-vacations. There&#8217;s still all the season wrap stuff to get through, first, though. It seems an impossible task, right now, as I&#8217;m feeling completely exhausted. I guess that&#8217;s to be expected after an overnight for work, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am looking forward to sleeping in more than one day a week&#8230; and being able to take some mini-vacations. There&#8217;s still all the season wrap stuff to get through, first, though. It seems an impossible task, right now, as I&#8217;m feeling completely exhausted. I guess that&#8217;s to be expected after an <a title="TEAMCorps pics" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/sets/72157617883168649/" target="_blank">overnight</a> for work, followed immediately by the <a title="wedding pics" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/sets/72157617869394795/" target="_blank">wedding</a> of our friends Jessica and Jason. This week shouldn&#8217;t be too bad. At some point, though, I need to start helping mom with her quilting shop web site.</p>
<p>Right now, sitting at the desk at the Y, all I can really think about is seeing Star Trek. I&#8217;ve heard so many good things about it&#8230; sure, some classic trek fans have their issues, but it&#8217;s trying to <em>reboot </em>the Star Trek world, not continue it. With a bunch of the <a title="fringe" href="http://www.fox.com/fringe/" target="_blank">Fringe</a> team behind the writing and production, it has to be good.<em><br />
update: </em>Star Trek didn&#8217;t happen tonight, but we did a lot of research into how to set up a clothesline for Patti for Mother&#8217;s Day. Hopefully we&#8217;ll fit Star Trek in, tomorrow.</p>
<p>Good things coming up: more days off, mini-vacations, new Fable II <a title="fable" href="http://www.lionhead.com/?newsid=70" target="_blank">downloadable content</a>, macbook</p>
<p>In the bummer zone: Garmin announced more delays for the Nuvifone. The android phones are looking more and more attractive, even though they don&#8217;t have turn-by-turn directions, yet. Unfortunately, the only android phone even <a title="motorola calgary" href="http://phandroid.com/2009/04/29/motorola-android-phone-calgary-headed-to-verizon/" target="_blank">rumored</a> for Verizon has a crappy-looking keyboard. If I didn&#8217;t think I&#8217;d miss the real keyboard, I&#8217;d already have broken down and gone with the iPhone. In the meantime, my phone is surviving&#8230; only shutting itself off once or twice a day.</p>
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		<title>upgrade anticipation</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2009/03/22/upgrade-anticipation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 04:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a time frame for the macbook upgrade. If I haven&#8217;t done it by June 25th, it will happen that day. The fact that it is going to happen makes me hate the loud fans and uncomfortable weight of the Dell even more. I don&#8217;t actually hate the Dell, it&#8217;s had a bunch of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a time frame for the macbook upgrade. If I haven&#8217;t done it by June 25th, it will happen that day. The fact that it <strong>is going to happen</strong> makes me hate the loud fans and uncomfortable weight of the Dell even more. I don&#8217;t actually <em>hate</em> the Dell, it&#8217;s had a bunch of good years, but it is time for the upgrade.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a timeframe for the phone upgrade. I was waiting for the nuvifone, but there isn&#8217;t a release date for that yet, and the main reason I was leaning towards it was the GPS-centric nature of it. The word on the street is that the new iPhone OS will enable using the Google maps in other applications and allow turn-by-turn directions. I don&#8217;t know if I can <em>go Apple</em> in such a big way&#8230; but the iPhone does have great customer satisfaction ratings and such. My phone turned itself off three times, completely at random, on Thursday&#8230; it is definitely time for that upgrade, but it also might not happen until the summer.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s actually going to be an upgrade, but we&#8217;re supposed to switch from Dish to U-Verse next month. Our DSL is currently with AT&amp;T, and it can&#8217;t even handle streaming Netflix movies&#8230; I don&#8217;t think we ordered any more speed, so it probably won&#8217;t change, but the girl who set up the install sure did try to convince us that it was a newer, better, more exclusive dsl line. As far as I&#8217;ve heard, U-Verse is just TV over DSL. It&#8217;s pretty likely that we&#8217;re actually trying to squeeze TV and the internet over the same pipe and actually downgrading. We shall see.</p>
<p>This site&#8217;s wordpress code is due for an upgrade, but I don&#8217;t have any desire to do that. All of my little plugins are working fine. Maybe, if I get a little more into tumblr/twitter/etc. after the phone/macbook upgrade, I&#8217;ll feel the need to tweak the code here to keep up with more mobile updates.</p>
<p>My car doesn&#8217;t need any upgrades&#8230; I guess Doug&#8217;s van is dead, though. We peeked at some craigslist ads for similar vehicles in our price range, but haven&#8217;t started actively looking at anything yet. I&#8217;ve been using the Sirius in my car much more often, lately. I got an eMail from Sirius and I was tempted to buy the latest portable radio while I can still &#8220;lock in&#8221; the current rates. Who knows if Sirius will survive? I&#8217;ve done my part to support them. I resisted the urge by telling myself that the radio I had put in my car works fine and I don&#8217;t need another portable music player&#8230; I like the idea of combining a couple devices, not adding one to carry around.</p>
<p>My camera also doesn&#8217;t need to be upgraded, but I haven&#8217;t used it much, lately. When I had time to be taking pictures, I was mostly playing video games. I&#8217;ll bring it along on the field trips for work and maybe that&#8217;ll respark my desire to shoot. Maybe a new toy <em>would</em> help&#8230; Or maybe I should get a Diana+ for myself, since it seems to be getting all the cool attachments and add-ons lately.</p>
<p>Upgrade fever is similar to Spring fever. All of our vacation planning is definitely keeping the typical spring fever symptoms at bay&#8230; unless vacation planning <em>is</em> a symptom of spring fever. Mom&#8217;s coming up during my spring break, we&#8217;ve got a family vacation planned for early June and a wedding back east in late June&#8230; and we&#8217;ve yet to pick out a show, but we plan to hit APT/Theater in the woods again this summer. I guess there are a few weeks between the team-building season and the camp season that I haven&#8217;t thought about, yet. There&#8217;s always video games&#8230;</p>
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		<title>December check-in</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2008/12/21/december-check-in/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Dec 2008 14:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My car&#8217;s thermometer read -5 this morning. I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s the lowest I&#8217;ve ever seen it display. I dunno if it was really that cold, but it was impressive. Winter&#8217;s starting off strong. I&#8217;m kinda glad I don&#8217;t need to go out to work, every morning, during this season. I think most of my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My car&#8217;s thermometer read -5 this morning. I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s the lowest I&#8217;ve ever seen it display. I dunno if it was really that cold, but it was impressive. Winter&#8217;s starting off strong. I&#8217;m kinda glad I don&#8217;t need to go out to work, every morning, during this season. I think most of my shopping is done. I went kinda big for the family, so I&#8217;m sorry if I ran out of money and didn&#8217;t send you anything. Of course, if you don&#8217;t keep some sort of online <a title="wishlist" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/3VO6XAZOPGSU8?reveal=unpurchased&amp;filter=all&amp;sort=priority&amp;layout=standard&amp;x=13&amp;y=13" target="_blank">wishlist</a> updated, you shouldn&#8217;t expect anything from me anyway <img src='http://fashiondisaster.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  &#8230; Cookiepalooza may not have been as impressive this year, but the cookies are still delicious. I think we made 6 varieties and might make one more before christmas, as well as the chocolate covered pretzels&#8230; and maybe some more of the favorites.</p>
<p>Last call for hang-out requests while Sarah and I are at Mom&#8217;s house the weekend after Christmas!</p>
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		<title>cameraphone memories</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2008/11/30/cameraphone-memories/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 14:31:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It started at the beginning of the month, when I parked my car in a way that was eerily familiar. Then a couple weeks later, the christmas trees arrived, and another familiar scene unfolded. I got my phone out again and tried to snap a similar picture. Then a scene/memory [/event?] from Thanksgiving of 2005 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It started at the beginning of the month, when I parked my car in a way that was <a title="Nov 2007" href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2007/11/09/home-at-horner/" target="_blank">eerily familiar</a>. Then a couple weeks later, the christmas trees arrived, and another <a title="Nov 2007" href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2007/11/17/unloading/" target="_blank">familiar scene</a> unfolded. I got my phone out again and tried to snap a similar picture. Then a <a title="Nov 2005" href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2005/11/24/refuel-for-the-journey-home/" target="_blank">scene/memory</a> [/event?] from Thanksgiving of 2005 reappeared. That may have been the last time I saw gas below $2. I&#8217;m kind of amazed that it&#8217;s down below $2 again. I was tempted to find a similar sign and try to recapture that picture on my phone&#8230; but the tree one wasn&#8217;t as good as last year&#8217;s tree pics, so I decided against it. I think I just need to have my camera with me all the time, in November. Now I know, for next year. Unless, of course, whatever phone I replace mine with has a really good camera&#8230; doesn&#8217;t seem likely.</p>
<p>I think this would be a good time to mention that I&#8217;ll be at Mom&#8217;s house the weekend after Christmas. Sarah and I will only there for a few days, but we might have a little bit of free time if anybody wants to get together.</p>
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		<title>proud of Woonsocket</title>
		<link>http://fashiondisaster.org/2008/09/26/proud-of-woonsocket/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:54:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really meant to blog more from back east. I&#8217;ve had a draft sitting here since before Sarah and her mom joined me out there, but I don&#8217;t think I logged back in after they got there, and we came back right before I started work, so things have been fairly busy. Today is a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a class="tt-flickr tt-flickr-Small" href="http://flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/2889923105/"><img class="alignright" style="border: 0pt none; margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="marinade" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3209/2889923105_70ab0ccabf_m.jpg" border="0" alt="marinade" hspace="3" vspace="1" width="180" height="240" align="right" /></a>I really meant to blog more from back east. I&#8217;ve had a draft sitting here since before Sarah and her mom joined me out there, but I don&#8217;t think I logged back in after they got there, and we came back right before I started work, so things have been fairly busy. Today is a real day off, though. There&#8217;s some sort of testing this week that throws off all the school schedules, so here I am, with some free time. Yesterday was a day off, too, but most of the day was occupied by the Mazda dealership and the crazy extended warranty people. I just finished preparing some pork for tomorrow&#8217;s dinner. It&#8217;s marinating, now&#8230; while I was cutting the meat, Sarah noticed that the marinade had separated. It reminds me of Jell-O 1-2-3. They don&#8217;t make that anymore, which is too bad. I remember liking it. Enjoy the picture. I&#8217;ve posted a few other pictures from the trip at Flickr in a set called <a title="back east 2008" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/sets/72157607385497563/" target="_blank">Back East 2008</a>.  I think we need to come up with more creative names for these trips. It was a good trip though, action-packed and fun-filled. Without further ado, here are some of my thoughts and reactions and recaps of it:</p>
<p>I did a lot of wandering around in between my grandfather&#8217;s funeral and the day Sarah and her Mom arrived. I didn&#8217;t make a checklist this time, I sort of <em>winged it</em>. I missed Putnam and Providence and Western Mass, as well as Sara and Drew, but I&#8217;ll try and make it up to them over the holidays or something. The most impressive changes were in Woonsocket. I drove around most of town on one of my first free days, while doing some errands.</p>
<p>Improvements since I lived in Woonsocket:</p>
<p>Starbucks: closed<br />
Tim Hortons: opened a second location, with a drive-thru<br />
Main St: more than half of the storefronts were occupied and open</p>
<p>Also, the Game Stop had a Wii Fit in stock.</p>
<p>I caught up with some people and did a little sightseeing around Worcester &amp; Millbury and Webster &amp; Dudley. I ate at Jimmy&#8217;s pizza, played Werewolves of London on the jukebox. I did some shopping for New England treats at a Market Basket (where I found the Coffee Milk on the same shelf as all the other milks). I helped Mom start to remake her living room and move beds around.</p>
<p>The girls arrived on Saturday night, right in the middle of what was left of the storm Hanna. They survived their long drive, though, and I was very proud of them. Sarah&#8217;s posted a pretty good recap of the first couple days at <a title="ponkie's journal" href="http://ponkie.livejournal.com/178918.html" target="_blank">her livejournal</a>. We saw some family, toured through Plymouth, hit King Richard&#8217;s Faire and then went to NYC and played tourist some more; visited the Statue of Liberty and ground zero and a good deli.</p>
<p>Tuesday, we had a little more rain, so we kept it local and did some indoor-type activities. We started with breakfast at Carl&#8217;s Diner in Oxford. The serving size has not gone down. We sat at the counter, for the maximum effect. I don&#8217;t believe we ate another real meal for the whole day. We did hit Friendly&#8217;s for some ice cream, that evening. I believe that was also the day we took in some Candlepin bowling at Mohegan in Webster. It&#8217;s still kind of a dive, but its charm is intact.</p>
<p>Wednesday, we met Mom in Worcester, after dropping my car off at the Mazda dealership for an oil change (and to look into the weirdness it went through on the drive out there). We headed to Lexington to visit the historic <a title="wiki" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lexington_Battle_Green" target="_blank">Battle Green</a>, visited the cemetery where my Dad and my Grandfather are and then met up with Mom&#8217;s friend Joyce at Bruegger&#8217;s Bagels for lunch. I hadn&#8217;t had a Herbie Turkey in a long time, and it was very tasty. Then we drove downtown and walked around Quincy Market and Faneuil Hall, had some cream puffs and then went to my cousin Mark&#8217;s place, in Braintree, for dinner. Mark made us pick records to play, and then made us play his XBox 360 and his Playstation 3. He cooked his awesome mac &amp; cheese and some amazing burgers for us.</p>
<p>Thursday, we took in Purgatory Chasm. We walked down the chasm and back up on the East side of it. It was very nice, good weather for it. We also went up to Dresser Hill and got some food and shakes. I don&#8217;t think the Dairy stuff is as good as it once was, but it&#8217;s still the only place I eat fried clams. That night, we went to the outskirts of Worcester and saw Mark&#8217;s group, The Accident that Led Me to the World, play in a barn attached to a huge farmhouse that about 20 people lived in. They call it a Collective (read: commune) and the show was a potluck. Lots of friendly modern hippie-types, nice big wood-burning stove in the kitchen, bunch of pretty good music. It was something I&#8217;d never expect from Worcester.</p>
<p>Friday, we decided to hit the Big E on opening day, as a stopping point on our way back home. It was fun to go down the avenue of states and expose Patti to all the local culture and flavors. We wandered through some of the vendors and a good chunk of the crafting section. We ate a little and walked a lot. Looking back, it wasn&#8217;t a good choice for a stop on the morning of a big drive. We were still pretty exhausted for the first few hours of the trip home, and we ran into torrential downpours and Tornado warnings, but we survived. I think I slept through most of Saturday.</p>
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		<title>rearranging schedules</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 14:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So &#8230; the vacation was postponed when Sarah&#8217;s Uncle passed away early this week. His memorial service isn&#8217;t until this coming Friday. Everyone&#8217;s been somber this week, but Mom had the next two weeks off work, so we all tried to be flexible and move the trip back a little bit. Then I got a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So &#8230; the vacation was postponed when Sarah&#8217;s Uncle passed away early this week. His memorial service isn&#8217;t until this coming Friday. Everyone&#8217;s been somber this week, but Mom had the next two weeks off work, so we all tried to be flexible and move the trip back a little bit. Then I got a call yesterday&#8230; my grandfather passed away. They&#8217;ve got a wake/funeral set up for Tuesday/Wednesday&#8230; so, I&#8217;ll be heading back just about as early as originally planned. As it stands, now, I&#8217;ll be flying back on Tuesday. Sarah and her Mom will drive out Saturday. We&#8217;ll have our vacation, and all drive back together at the end of the following week. We played with the idea of me driving and them flying, but decided that this way was more cost-effective; I&#8217;d probably be more comfortable long-haul driving than flying, but it costs the same amount of gas to transport two people as one, and my ticket doesn&#8217;t cost that much more, even though it&#8217;s last minute. I am sorta bummed that I can&#8217;t use United Miles on one-way trips, but I&#8217;ve got an itinerary on hold and ready to buy.</p>
<p>Gotta get through all this memorial stuff, and then we can vacation, as planned. That&#8217;s my mindset.</p>
<p>So, for those of you who are back east, I will be around for almost two weeks, a little busy until Thursday, and then joined by Sarah and her Mom on the weekend and for the rest of the following week. I will resume taking requests to hang out and/or suggestions for activities, now.</p>
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		<title>family vacation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 17:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have yet to fully convince Sarah&#8217;s younger brother Frank, or get confirmation that we&#8217;ve convinced him, but Sarah and her mom and I are heading back east in a couple weeks. Technically, I haven&#8217;t received my work schedule for this season yet, so I may cut into the first day or two of work, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have yet to fully convince Sarah&#8217;s younger brother Frank, or get confirmation that we&#8217;ve convinced him, but Sarah and her mom and I are heading <em>back east</em> in a couple weeks. Technically, I haven&#8217;t received my work schedule for this season yet, so I may cut into the first day or two of work, but I haven&#8217;t seen Mom in a long time, so it&#8217;s worth it.</p>
<p>The plan is to drive out there on Tuesday the 2nd and stay until Monday the 8th (or <em>maybe</em> Tuesday the 9th, if we <em>need</em> an extra day). We&#8217;ve penciled in a King Richard&#8217;s Faire outing with my sister and her kids for Sunday, and we want to see some Boston and NYC, but otherwise, plans are fairly open. I think we should do a little candlepin bowling, eat breakfast at the counter at Carl&#8217;s Diner, if it&#8217;s still open and see any of y&#8217;all who live out there and miss me. Put in your requests for activities/hang-out time now.</p>
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		<title>change of time, change of scenery?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 19:22:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Next week, not this week, is Spring break for Chicago public schools. Sarah has just given notice at her job (seems like a sinking ship, doing what it can to cut costs by cutting hours). We think we should take another road-trip/vacation&#8230; last year was our trek across Missouri. Where should we go this time? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Next week, not this week, is Spring break for Chicago public schools. Sarah has just given notice at her job (seems like a sinking ship, doing what it can to cut costs by cutting hours). We think we should take another road-trip/vacation&#8230; last year was our trek across Missouri. Where should we go this time? Sarah wants to go somewhere &#8220;green,&#8221;Â so I guess maybe we need to head somewhat South-ish? At some point, we want to go see Mom, with Sarah&#8217;s mom, but that&#8217;ll wait until we all make some time at the same time and Mom has her guest room ready&#8230; and New England is probably no more green than it is here.</p>
<p>I walked around the Y and changed all the clocks, again, today. Last time the time changed, I was late for work when my clock changed on the wrong weekend. It was too smart for its own good. My new clock has a daylight savings time mode, so I got there with no problem&#8230; and I think we only had one guy show up late because he hadn&#8217;t changed his clocks.</p>
<p>And yes, the amp and equipment and stuff all still seems to be working great, I&#8217;ve got a couple opportunities to go play with some people in the city this week&#8230; to try some stuff out, see if there&#8217;s a good fit. I plugged my bass into my computer and played along with some tracks yesterday. It was fun. Looking forward to playing with people&#8230; hoping something comes together.</p>
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		<title>What I learned on my winter vacation:</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 16:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[- Boston accents really are funny. I was conditioned not to respond much to them, while living out there, but when my Mom&#8217;s friend Joyce started talking about the Pops concert they went to and mentioned the &#8220;orchestra&#8221; (Auk-sturrah), I almost cracked up. I didn&#8217;t hear too many other examples, but once I heard that, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>- Boston accents really are funny. I was conditioned not to respond much to them, while living out there, but when my Mom&#8217;s friend Joyce started talking about the Pops concert they went to and mentioned the &#8220;orchestra&#8221; (Auk-sturrah), I almost cracked up. I didn&#8217;t hear too many other examples, but once I heard that, my ears were sort of listening for it. No one&#8217;s mentioned anything overly funny about my accent out here. Dad trained himself out of his Boston accent to be on the radio, so I grew with a midwesternized sort of accent&#8230; but there are discrepancies, mostly in vowel sounds; some double-O words like roof and room have an <em>oo</em> sound in my head, not a <em>uh</em> sound&#8230; and it seems that there&#8217;s some long E and long A differences, too. Sarah works on N McLean  Blvd. The first time I went there, the directions her mom gave me included a street that sounded like [Shirley] MacLaine&#8230; and of course there&#8217;s the example from that Threadless shirt that rhymed Cherry with Fairy, that might be close enough for spoken poetry, but one has a clear eh sound to me, while the other has a long A.</p>
<p>-Â  I miss playing music. I knew that already, obviously, but I took a ride with Mark to a couple music stores, looking for gifts for Raianne, and I missed even that part of the scene. Hanging around talking to music store employees, seeing how knowledgeable they are, guessing what kinds of shoppers the other people in the store are: parents, multi-instrumentalists, strictly piano, garage band kids, etc. I also <em>almost</em> went to a show at Ralph&#8217;s. I was extremely tempted, just to see some local music, even if it was metal(!) &#8230; but I didn&#8217;t end up going, mostly because I didn&#8217;t have my earplugs with me, but the yearning was there.</p>
<p>- While the GPS is useful out here for finding out how long it&#8217;s going to take to get places or getting around large obstacles like airports or finding out where the bridges over the rivers are, it&#8217;s not necessary, since the grid road structure seems to extend forever. It is, however, completely necessary when driving to new places in New England. Grid doesn&#8217;t exist out there, except in small pockets of residential suburbia or inner-city areas that happen to be uninterrupted by a river or a coastline or a humongous hill. Most roads go diagonally at some time or another, very few are straight for more than a mile at a time. If GPS is unavailable, a printed out set of directions from a map service is ok, if you have a decent navigator to read them to you. Getting directions from locals works in a pinch, but be prepared for landmarks that don&#8217;t really exist anymore (&#8220;bear left where The Fair used to be, then go up past the old closed Texaco and turn left at the building that used to be the high school. When you pass the parking lot that used to be the Ford Dealership you&#8217;re almost there, you just have to take what was the third exit of the rotary at that big intersection where they installed a light. Then it&#8217;s on your right, after the where the mill used to be&#8230;&#8221;). Of course, if you live out there, you just <em>know</em> which roads go where. I used to have mental pictures of where each road ended and which important roads it might intersect with along the way. Maybe I can start clearing out all the brainspace for other things, now.</p>
<p>- My little laptop could might be able to get me through a weekend or maybe even a week of regular use. It&#8217;s pretty beat up and kinda sad, in that it has no CD-Rom and has to have <em>either</em> wireless network or USB ports, since it&#8217;s internal USB port fell out. But it gets me to my mail and the rest of the web. It does just fine with that GPS stuff, when it doesn&#8217;t do that <em>25-minute blank screen before booting</em> thing.</p>
<p>I wish the rest of the computers here had such minor problems. Frank&#8217;s is due for another upgrade, to be able to play Call of Duty 4. He thinks it&#8217;s the graphics card, it probably is, but that&#8217;s gonna require a Power supply upgrade &#8230; and since we left it in the crazy Gateway case, it&#8217;s gonna be easier and cheaper to do a case transfer. Not a huge problem, but still a big project. The <a href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2007/07/12/fishtank-computer-needs-a-name/" title="ftc">fish tank computer</a> was due to have the Reserator added to it, but after successfully <em>fishing</em> out the molex power lead that tells the reserator when to turn on, the machine won&#8217;t boot. It seems like a power issue, and the power supply was just the crappy stock Gateway&#8230; possibly not the best candidate for oil submersion. Maybe, after the upgrade, I&#8217;ll submerge Frank&#8217;s equally crappy power supply, instead. removing that tray from the oil seems like a really messy project that I&#8217;m not especially looking forward to. And then Sarah&#8217;s uncle Paul left his laptop here on Christmas&#8230; it was ridiculously infested with spyware and malware and adware, but it also can&#8217;t see its audio card&#8230; or, more accurately, it can see it, and install drivers for it, but only the line-in gets installed. For output, it says &#8220;no audio device.&#8221; It&#8217;s annoying. It also has a power jack issue, which, I believe i saw something about needing a re-solder in a quick google search. I&#8217;ve never been good at soldering.</p>
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		<title>packed and ready</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2007 06:08:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I didn&#8217;t do too bad doing everything I wanted to do this visit. I&#8217;m glad I made that list, it certainly helped me remember stuff&#8230; I totally would&#8217;ve forgotten to get those hard drives in the mail if I hadn&#8217;t looked at the list today. Once I finish this entry and get the laptop in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t do too bad doing everything I wanted <a href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2007/12/05/time-for-another-lists/" title="todo">to do</a> this visit. I&#8217;m glad I made that list, it certainly helped me remember stuff&#8230; I totally would&#8217;ve forgotten to get those hard drives in the mail if I hadn&#8217;t looked at the list today. Once I finish this entry and get the laptop in the suitcase, I&#8217;ll be totally packed, except for whatever clothes I take off tomorrow morning.I chose the biggest suitcase I could find in the barn. I think it&#8217;s <em>just</em> big enough, and that&#8217;s with one small carry-on.</p>
<p>Got my alarm clock on my cell phone all set up. My phone hasn&#8217;t been in need of constant charging, like it has in past visits to Dudley. Apparently, there&#8217;s a new tower in the area or something, because I have a great signal, even in Mom&#8217;s basement. Keeping that digital signal takes less battery power than struggling with an older <em>not-so-digital</em> signal.I guess the next time Mom upgrades her phone, she doesn&#8217;t <em>have</em> to go with a tri-mode phone.</p>
<p><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2008/2132817270_e9209964f0_m.jpg" alt="Mel" align="right" border="1" height="180" hspace="5" width="240" /> Didn&#8217;t take a ton of pictures, but I&#8217;m glad I had the camera. I got a cute shot of Pam&#8217;s dog Mel and a couple random shots of Worcester. Oh, and on Saturday, me and my Mom&#8217;s best friend from high school, Joyce, went to 111 Chophouse. We had some amazing food. I had heard good things about the place, but, for some reason, neither Mom or I had ever been there. She got a gift card from one of her clients at work, so we took advantage of it. I took a couple pics while we were there of their monogrammed (<em>logoed?</em>) knives and our amazingly delicious <img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2032/2130480686_f404c25706_m.jpg" alt="mousse" align="left" border="1" height="180" hspace="5" width="240" />dessert. White chocolate mousse in a chocolate tulip cup with whipped cream and a raspberry puree: yum. We really weren&#8217;t hungry, the servings were more than ample, but it sounded way too good, so we got one and shared it. When the mousse was almost gone, Mom imploded the cup and we each grabbed a couple bits. A piece of mine fell into my latte when I bit into it&#8230; and that just made my tasty latte into something amazing.</p>
<p>All in all, a good visit. I wish I had managed to see everyone that wanted to see me, but I did come close and in a very limited amount of time. I spent a good amount of time in Worcester and a little time in Woonsocket. Most of my time was out in the Dudley and other &#8216;burbs. Actually, after seeing the way Chicago suburbs really fit the description of a suburb, I&#8217;d say that Dudley and these other New England towns are somewhere in between suburban and rural. Dudley is certainly <em>practically rural</em> in terms of the kind of land and features you see, but the people and the community act fairly suburban. I dunno, maybe I need to go look at the actual definitions of those terms&#8230; but some other time, right now I need to sleep, so I can get up early and shower and get to my plane on time.</p>
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		<title>on music duty</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2007 00:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m on Mom&#8217;s cool little laptop, picking out some more music and taking a break from the family. We have a lot of food. Mom won some sort of &#8220;Party for 25&#8243; platter from Roche Brothers and we have about 11 people here&#8230; lots of food. Not having to cook took some stress off Mom, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m on Mom&#8217;s cool little laptop, picking out some more music and taking a break from the family. We have a lot of food. Mom won some sort of &#8220;Party for 25&#8243; platter from Roche Brothers and we have about 11 people here&#8230; lots of food. Not having to cook took some stress off Mom, though, so that&#8217;s cool. I guess she&#8217;ll just have lots of leftovers. None of my cousins showed up, again. I think it&#8217;s been a couple years since I saw any of them. I put a bulletin out and a mass text message inviting people to Mom&#8217;s house to eat some of the extra food, but, so far, no takers. I think it&#8217;s time to open gifts and stuff&#8230; then eat lots of cookies&#8230; then see everyone off and think about getting packed up for my early flight. I think I might&#8217;ve had too much coffee tonight.</p>
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		<title>making a short list, shortening the long list</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2007 17:56:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve said before that I miss the windy hilly roads of New England. I can now make a short list a New England driving quirks that I miss: the need for high beam headlights on those windy hilly roads which lack streetlights, knowing when your crossing a town line by the quality of the plow [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve said before that I miss the windy hilly roads of New England. I can now make a short list a New England driving quirks that I miss: the need for high beam headlights on those windy hilly roads which lack streetlights, knowing when your crossing a town line by the quality of the plow work on the road, actual rotaries (roundabouts), the sense of urgency drivers feel when a red light turns green that causes them to immediately start rolling forward.</p>
<p>The visit home is going well. I probably won&#8217;t make it to the teen center this time around, I&#8217;m not going to take a ton of pictures of all my old haunts (which was on my mental list of things to do and not well defined, I think it was a flickr-groups-inspired idea and I can&#8217;t think of which groups/themes I had in mind) and I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be able to fit in hanging out with everyone who wants to, since today is pretty much the only day I have and only Erika has come up with a time and place that works for her&#8230; and I pretty much slept the whole morning away. I suppose I could fit some time in with someone around our visit to Karen and the kids in Stoughton, tomorrow&#8230; or before dinner time on Monday. Heading out to Worcester this afternoon, most likely, with Mom and her good friend Joyce. I&#8217;ll probably take my own car so that I can break off and meet with someone, if they get in touch with me before it runs into my other plans. I guess I should go shower.</p>
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		<title>I took a window seat, maybe I should&#8217;ve taken an aisle</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2007 01:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve packed and prepared for my morning plane. This is the first of what will probably be my annual holiday visit to Mom&#8217;s. Been a while since I flew. I think I preferred the aisle seats to windows, but the allure of a window seat called to me and I chose one. I&#8217;ll just be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve packed and prepared for my morning plane. This is the first of what will probably be my annual holiday visit to Mom&#8217;s. Been a while since I flew. I think I preferred the aisle seats to windows, but the allure of a<em> window seat</em> called to me and I chose one. I&#8217;ll just be chilling with my iPod for the whole ride, it&#8217;s a pretty short one, if I recall correctly. It&#8217;s an entirely different experience than driving out there. I miss seeing Mom; I miss some of my friends&#8230; but this definitely feels more like a visit, than a trip &#8220;<em>home.</em>&#8221; Here really feels like home, now. Sure, I don&#8217;t really have a desk of my own and the work situation is still a little more part-time than it should be&#8230; but otherwise, things are pretty darn awesome, here. There&#8217;s been some tension, but I think it&#8217;s related to gifts and the secrecy surrounding them. I&#8217;ll be relieved when all the gifts are open and everyone knows what they got and hopefully all the weirdness will blow over. I certainly spent way too much this year, and I know it. All year I spend stupid amounts of money on myself, I need to be able to make up for it during the holidays. I sent stuff to a few people, through Amazon, and got a whole lot for Sarah and her family. I might&#8217;ve gone overboard, but I hardly pay anything for my room and board here, so I don&#8217;t feel like it&#8217;s too much. Besides, I&#8217;m a damn good bargain shopper&#8230; it&#8217;s not like I paid full price for anything.</p>
<p>Anyway, planning on relaxing at Mom&#8217;s for a good percentage of my time at home, so I should be able to update a few times. Hope you all enjoy your holidays if I don&#8217;t see you!</p>
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		<title>time for another list(s)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 04:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[a to do list, for my upcoming trip back east&#8230; or maybe a hopefully do, or should do, but might not get to it. We shall see: âˆš Dinner @ Mom&#8217;s (Monday night) âˆš Go to Hava Java (on the way back from the airport, with Mark) âˆš Go to Java Hut (for the last [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a to do list, for my upcoming trip back east&#8230;  or maybe a <em>hopefully do</em>, or <em>should do, but might not get to it</em>. We shall see:</p>
<blockquote><p>âˆš Dinner @ Mom&#8217;s (Monday night)<br />
âˆš Go to Hava Java (on the way back from the airport, with Mark)<br />
âˆš Go to Java Hut (for the last time &#8230; ::sniff::)<br />
âˆš Get remaining gifts for people in the area<br />
<strike>_ visit the teen center</strike><br />
hang out with:<br />
âˆš Mark (ride home from airport, no Raianne or Scrabble, though)<br />
âˆš Kristin<br />
âˆš Drew (at Numark party)<br />
âˆš Sara (at Numark party, no Tyler visit)<br />
<strike>_ Jess and Erika</strike><br />
âˆš Karen and Cousin Mark</p></blockquote>
<p>I guess I also need a packing list. A <em>things not to forget</em> list:<strike></strike></p>
<blockquote><p><strike>_ Tim Horton&#8217;s coffee mug</strike> <em>didn&#8217;t fit, not important</em><br />
âˆš laptop (<em>little one</em>)<br />
âˆš   camera<br />
âˆš ipod and mount (maybe cupholder-mount)<br />
âˆš stocking stuffers for Mom&#8217;s house<br />
âˆš phone and charger (<em>both car and home</em>)<br />
âˆš sunglasses<br />
âˆš gloves</p></blockquote>
<p>Ooh, and a <em>things to not forget to bring/ship home</em> list:</p>
<blockquote><p>âˆš stocking stuff from Mom&#8217;s and other gifts<br />
âˆš hard drives that need rescuing (out of the barn and shipped to Gillware)<br />
âˆš Just For Sundae CD (haven&#8217;t found it yet)<br />
<strike>_ Peggy Lawton cookies, Devil Dogs and other local foods</strike> (not this time, I can always get stuff shipped)</p></blockquote>
<p>I may be adding to this.</p>
<p><em>edited on 12/25</em></p>
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		<title>back east again</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Nov 2007 15:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m about to leave for the second of three overnight Adventure Ed trips, but I wanted to let everyone know that I have officially booked flights and I will be in the New England area from Thurday the 20th of December until Christmas. I leave early morning on the 25th and I have dinner with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m about to leave for the second of three overnight Adventure Ed trips, but I wanted to let everyone know that I have officially booked flights and I will be in the New England area from Thurday the 20th of December until Christmas. I leave early morning on the 25th and I have dinner with the family on the Eve, but the rest of my time is pretty open. If you want some, lemme know. I&#8217;m also not opposed to some big group shindig thing, some music, a movie, whatever, so feel free to try and plan amongst yourselves. I should have <a href="http://fashiondisaster.org/2005/11/26/woot/" title="woot">Mom&#8217;s Nissan van</a> most of the weekend, so I&#8217;ll be mobile and based out of Dudley.</p>
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		<title>back east trip journal; entry no. 5</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 20:20:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And to wrap up, here&#8217;s how our super fun-filled labor day weekend went: Sarah came in to Providence on Friday night, only about twenty minutes late, on an otherwise uneventful flight, save for the sticky floor under her feet.Â  Once we got her shoes all cleaned off, we headed back to Mom&#8217;s, talked a little [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And to wrap up, here&#8217;s how our super fun-filled labor day weekend went:</p>
<p>Sarah came in to Providence on Friday night, only about twenty minutes late, on an otherwise uneventful flight, save for the sticky floor under her feet.Â  Once we got her shoes all cleaned off, we headed back to Mom&#8217;s, talked a little bit, did some catching up, and then got some sleep.</p>
<p>Saturday was our Woodstock Fair day. We headed down there with Mom, using the back-roads to avoid the traffic, and we snuck in the back entrance to avoid the huge crazy parking lot and crossing the super-busy street. We wandered the fair in a sort of aimless fashion for a while&#8230; got a cool gift at a craft tent for some friends of ours who are having a baby soon. We also picked up some cool books at half price&#8230; or less &#8230; and a lot of yummy food. They had excellent turkey legs and while Mom and I shared blooming onion Sarah and I shared a turkey leg. I got a whole meal out of it. We had some <a href="http://www.dels.com/" title="dels" target="_blank">Del&#8217;s</a> lemonade, a local treat I had forgotten about. We also got an awesome orange cream smoothie and a delicious cinnamon bun, just before we left. We heard some of the Bangles, but there were no seats left to sit and actually watch. Afterwards, we collapsed into bed and slept most of the afternoon and evening away.</p>
<p>Sunday morning, we headed out to Plymouth and had some breakfast at my Aunt Elizabeth&#8217;s house with cousin Mark, Karen and Brian, sister and brother in law, and their kids Jake and Cam. After some yummy waffles and such, we all headed over to King Richard&#8217;s Faire. It was a charming little set-up with a lot more shade and trees than the Bristol fair up in Kenosha. It was very similar to that fair, though somewhat lacking in vendors and variety in crafts and wares in comparison. They did have a lot of nice pottery, though, and Sarah and I picked up a couple cool mugs with fish on them. Mark bought one of those hanging <a href="http://skychairs.com/" title="skychair" target="_blank">Sky Chairs</a> and everyone else got Henna tattoos (except maybe Brian).</p>
<p>Monday, we went to Providence to find OOP. I thought they&#8217;d moved to the mall, from Thayer St, so we went there first&#8230; but found it all closed up. They guy in Ritz, next door, gave us a pamphlet with their new locations and a $10 coupon&#8230; so we took three. We found the OOP on Westminster St and bought a few books, some chocolate band-aids and some neat little planting kits that look like matchbooks. We got some shiny diner breakfast on the way home. I got the car all packed and we collapsed into bed again.</p>
<p>Apparently, I didn&#8217;t set the alarm right, and we got up about an hour after we had planned, but we got on the roadÂ  within an hour and got back to Illinois before the day was over. Saw a pretty sunset over very flat Ohio. Slowed down a little bit at that silly curve in the highway in Cleveland &#8211; otherwise, smooth sailing.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/sets/72157601712583315/" title="flickr" target="_blank">Pictures from the trip</a> are all on Flickr, but I can&#8217;t seem to connect to it right now, so I dunno how they look.</p>
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		<title>back east trip journal; entry no. 4</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Aug 2007 22:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John V</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tuesday, I hooked up our sweet new toy from the Sony store, the Sony VRDMC5 DVDirect DVD Recorder. It&#8217;s a simple, yet effective way to transfer Mom&#8217;s VHS stuff to DVD. It has all sorts of nifty features that make it super easy from Sony video cameras, but it works quite well from any video [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tuesday, I hooked up our sweet new toy from the Sony store, the  <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000SML2BQ?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=existentialfa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000SML2BQ">Sony VRDMC5 DVDirect DVD Recorder</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=existentialfa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B000SML2BQ" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important" border="0" width="1" height="1" />. It&#8217;s a simple, yet effective way to transfer Mom&#8217;s VHS stuff to DVD. It has all sorts of nifty features that make it super easy from Sony video cameras, but it works quite well from any video source with composite cables. Its built in software makes a simple menu interface and you can force new titles wherever you want. I got through a Fox News &#8220;Zip Trip&#8221; to Dudley, but didn&#8217;t manage to get to any of the high school performance videos&#8230; maybe on Monday?</p>
<p>Tuesday evening, I met up with Erika and Shane. We took a little shopping trip to pick up a remote controlled dragonfly (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000RH53H6?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=existentialfa-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000RH53H6">like this one</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=existentialfa-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B000RH53H6" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important" border="0" width="1" height="1" />). Then we headed back to Webster and went to <a href="http://www.friendlys.com/" title="Friendlys" target="_blank">Friendly&#8217;s</a> for some dinner and ice cream. I love their peanut butter sauce. I had kinda forgotten how much.</p>
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<p>Wednesday morning, I headed out to the Mazda dealership, where we bought the car, for an oil change and tire rotation. I had Kristin with me and we took a walk to <a href="http://www.honeydewdonuts.com/" title="Dew" target="_blank">Honey Dew Donuts</a> while we were waiting for the work to be done. Honey Dew is the same <a href="http://fashiondisaster.org/v/objects/dew-it-daily.jpg.html" rel="dew">as I remember it</a>&#8230; good competition for Dunkin&#8217;, even if it is just in a small regional market. Kristin and I also visited Steve at <a href="http://toadhallstudio.com/" title="toad" target="_blank">Toad Hall</a>, and I got my dose of <a href="http://www.wormtown.org" title="worm" target="_blank">Wormtown</a> music and gossip and such.  We also swung through Woonsocket, while we were killing time and I went to <a href="http://www.myspace.com/havajavacoffee" title="hj" target="_blank">Hava Java</a>, where they still remembered my order (six months later). I took a few pictures of a <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/1288074685/" target="flickr">local landmark</a> while we were in the area. That evening, we swung out to the Hockomock Teen Center and saw all the kids who weren&#8217;t there on my last visit.</p>
<p>I had no specific plans for Thursday morning until Erika called and asked for a ride to Worcester. She needed a CAT scan because she had sneezed and then gotten a sudden headache and problems with vision and tracking with her left eye. I left her at the huge new &#8220;Medical City&#8221; in the early afternoon. She was there until 7PM, and they sent her home, but another killer sneeze has made all the pain come back since then. I dunno what her plan is, the big shiny hospital seems useless, from my point of view. On my way out of Worcester, I stopped by a <a href="http://thepulsemag.com/wordpress/2006/10/1006-the-5-and-diner/" title="shiny" target="_blank">new shiny diner</a>, fairly close to where I used to live. It had a 50s theme and was fairly good.</p>
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<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/efdisaster/1288956106/">Name Me?</a></span></p>
<p>I ended the night with the only official plans I had for the day &#8211; a visit to Sara, my old roommate, and Tyler, the cat. Tyler was as <strike>cute</strike> sexy as ever and there&#8217;s a new kitten, who is being called bit until he gets a permanent name. We watched some awesome TV and had some awesome sandwiches and were entertained by the cats.</p>
<p>This morning, I grabbed a coffee with Mark at <a href="http://www.victoriastationcafe.com/" title="vicstat" target="_blank">Victoria Station</a> in Putnam and then tooled around Webster, chatting with some other local artists and talking about upcoming Webster-Dudley events. Now, I&#8217;m trying to decide what to do until I pick up Sarah at 11PM in Providence tonight. I&#8217;ve got plenty of options, but no idea which one makes the most sense.</p>
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		<title>back east trip journal; entry no. 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 23:34:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday was all about recuperation. I left the house a couple times to help Mom do some shopping, and that was it. No excitement to speak of. One of the things we bought is this simple device put out by Sony that I&#8217;m going to use to convert a bunch of Mom&#8217;s VHS tapes to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday was all about recuperation. I left the house a couple times to help Mom do some shopping, and that was it. No excitement to speak of. One of the things we bought is this simple device put out by Sony that I&#8217;m going to use to convert a bunch of Mom&#8217;s VHS tapes to DVD. It&#8217;s a good project for me this week. I haven&#8217;t confirmed any plans beyond getting Sarah Friday night, Woodstock Fair on Saturday and King Richard&#8217;s on Sunday (now accompanied by my sister and her kids). I also still haven&#8217;t called the local Mazda dealership to schedule an oil change. I need to write myself a reminder or something.</p>
<p>Today, I took a ride down to Woonsocket, almost on accident. I was just looking for a place to pick up some audio/video cables and just ended up heading that way. I went to the shiny diner, which is no longer a Scramblers&#8230; it is now Patriot Diner. The menu was hilarious, I wish I had taken a picture. They obviously just took the front cover picture from the previous owner&#8217;s menu and pasted a piece of paper onto the picture of the diner that said Patriot Diner where the last name had been&#8230; it was black with light writing and completely flat in perspective, while the diner was at a slight angle. I may have to go back and get a picture, it was that good. Unfortunately, they no longer have crunchy french toast on the menu.</p>
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<p>I got the cables I needed, eventually, but while I was setting up the devices, Mom got home and immediately started yelling for me from outside&#8230; and asked if I could bring an <em>aquarium</em> up. When I got there, I saw what they had seen, and understood. On top of our screened in porch, there sat an iguana. Pam, friend of the family and nurse for my grandfather and uncle, was chasing the thing down and trying to get a hold of it. I went inside to fetch a box and the phone. After I gave the phone to Pam, I got my camera out of my car. I snapped a couple of pictures and then went down to the computer to print out a basic iguana guide and consult with a couple friends about the whole situation. Mom and Pam headed down the street to the house that the raccoons had come from (apparently, she feeds them in her backyard). It turned out that the iguana had escaped about a month ago. They were very happy to see <em>Fredo</em> again.</p>
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