Tag Archive for 'Mom'

Page 2 of 8

change of time, change of scenery?

Next week, not this week, is Spring break for Chicago public schools. Sarah has just given notice at her job (seems like a sinking ship, doing what it can to cut costs by cutting hours). We think we should take another road-trip/vacation… last year was our trek across Missouri. Where should we go this time? Sarah wants to go somewhere “green,” so I guess maybe we need to head somewhat South-ish? At some point, we want to go see Mom, with Sarah’s mom, but that’ll wait until we all make some time at the same time and Mom has her guest room ready… and New England is probably no more green than it is here.

I walked around the Y and changed all the clocks, again, today. Last time the time changed, I was late for work when my clock changed on the wrong weekend. It was too smart for its own good. My new clock has a daylight savings time mode, so I got there with no problem… and I think we only had one guy show up late because he hadn’t changed his clocks.

And yes, the amp and equipment and stuff all still seems to be working great, I’ve got a couple opportunities to go play with some people in the city this week… to try some stuff out, see if there’s a good fit. I plugged my bass into my computer and played along with some tracks yesterday. It was fun. Looking forward to playing with people… hoping something comes together.

What I learned on my winter vacation:

- Boston accents really are funny. I was conditioned not to respond much to them, while living out there, but when my Mom’s friend Joyce started talking about the Pops concert they went to and mentioned the “orchestra” (Auk-sturrah), I almost cracked up. I didn’t hear too many other examples, but once I heard that, my ears were sort of listening for it. No one’s mentioned anything overly funny about my accent out here. Dad trained himself out of his Boston accent to be on the radio, so I grew with a midwesternized sort of accent… but there are discrepancies, mostly in vowel sounds; some double-O words like roof and room have an oo sound in my head, not a uh sound… and it seems that there’s some long E and long A differences, too. Sarah works on N McLean Blvd. The first time I went there, the directions her mom gave me included a street that sounded like [Shirley] MacLaine… and of course there’s the example from that Threadless shirt that rhymed Cherry with Fairy, that might be close enough for spoken poetry, but one has a clear eh sound to me, while the other has a long A.

-  I miss playing music. I knew that already, obviously, but I took a ride with Mark to a couple music stores, looking for gifts for Raianne, and I missed even that part of the scene. Hanging around talking to music store employees, seeing how knowledgeable they are, guessing what kinds of shoppers the other people in the store are: parents, multi-instrumentalists, strictly piano, garage band kids, etc. I also almost went to a show at Ralph’s. I was extremely tempted, just to see some local music, even if it was metal(!) … but I didn’t end up going, mostly because I didn’t have my earplugs with me, but the yearning was there.

- While the GPS is useful out here for finding out how long it’s going to take to get places or getting around large obstacles like airports or finding out where the bridges over the rivers are, it’s not necessary, since the grid road structure seems to extend forever. It is, however, completely necessary when driving to new places in New England. Grid doesn’t exist out there, except in small pockets of residential suburbia or inner-city areas that happen to be uninterrupted by a river or a coastline or a humongous hill. Most roads go diagonally at some time or another, very few are straight for more than a mile at a time. If GPS is unavailable, a printed out set of directions from a map service is ok, if you have a decent navigator to read them to you. Getting directions from locals works in a pinch, but be prepared for landmarks that don’t really exist anymore (“bear left where The Fair used to be, then go up past the old closed Texaco and turn left at the building that used to be the high school. When you pass the parking lot that used to be the Ford Dealership you’re almost there, you just have to take what was the third exit of the rotary at that big intersection where they installed a light. Then it’s on your right, after the where the mill used to be…”). Of course, if you live out there, you just know which roads go where. I used to have mental pictures of where each road ended and which important roads it might intersect with along the way. Maybe I can start clearing out all the brainspace for other things, now.

- My little laptop could might be able to get me through a weekend or maybe even a week of regular use. It’s pretty beat up and kinda sad, in that it has no CD-Rom and has to have either wireless network or USB ports, since it’s internal USB port fell out. But it gets me to my mail and the rest of the web. It does just fine with that GPS stuff, when it doesn’t do that 25-minute blank screen before booting thing.

I wish the rest of the computers here had such minor problems. Frank’s is due for another upgrade, to be able to play Call of Duty 4. He thinks it’s the graphics card, it probably is, but that’s gonna require a Power supply upgrade … and since we left it in the crazy Gateway case, it’s gonna be easier and cheaper to do a case transfer. Not a huge problem, but still a big project. The fish tank computer was due to have the Reserator added to it, but after successfully fishing out the molex power lead that tells the reserator when to turn on, the machine won’t boot. It seems like a power issue, and the power supply was just the crappy stock Gateway… possibly not the best candidate for oil submersion. Maybe, after the upgrade, I’ll submerge Frank’s equally crappy power supply, instead. removing that tray from the oil seems like a really messy project that I’m not especially looking forward to. And then Sarah’s uncle Paul left his laptop here on Christmas… it was ridiculously infested with spyware and malware and adware, but it also can’t see its audio card… or, more accurately, it can see it, and install drivers for it, but only the line-in gets installed. For output, it says “no audio device.” It’s annoying. It also has a power jack issue, which, I believe i saw something about needing a re-solder in a quick google search. I’ve never been good at soldering.

packed and ready

I didn’t do too bad doing everything I wanted to do this visit. I’m glad I made that list, it certainly helped me remember stuff… I totally would’ve forgotten to get those hard drives in the mail if I hadn’t looked at the list today. Once I finish this entry and get the laptop in the suitcase, I’ll be totally packed, except for whatever clothes I take off tomorrow morning.I chose the biggest suitcase I could find in the barn. I think it’s just big enough, and that’s with one small carry-on.

Got my alarm clock on my cell phone all set up. My phone hasn’t been in need of constant charging, like it has in past visits to Dudley. Apparently, there’s a new tower in the area or something, because I have a great signal, even in Mom’s basement. Keeping that digital signal takes less battery power than struggling with an older not-so-digital signal.I guess the next time Mom upgrades her phone, she doesn’t have to go with a tri-mode phone.

Mel Didn’t take a ton of pictures, but I’m glad I had the camera. I got a cute shot of Pam’s dog Mel and a couple random shots of Worcester. Oh, and on Saturday, me and my Mom’s best friend from high school, Joyce, went to 111 Chophouse. We had some amazing food. I had heard good things about the place, but, for some reason, neither Mom or I had ever been there. She got a gift card from one of her clients at work, so we took advantage of it. I took a couple pics while we were there of their monogrammed (logoed?) knives and our amazingly delicious moussedessert. White chocolate mousse in a chocolate tulip cup with whipped cream and a raspberry puree: yum. We really weren’t hungry, the servings were more than ample, but it sounded way too good, so we got one and shared it. When the mousse was almost gone, Mom imploded the cup and we each grabbed a couple bits. A piece of mine fell into my latte when I bit into it… and that just made my tasty latte into something amazing.

All in all, a good visit. I wish I had managed to see everyone that wanted to see me, but I did come close and in a very limited amount of time. I spent a good amount of time in Worcester and a little time in Woonsocket. Most of my time was out in the Dudley and other ‘burbs. Actually, after seeing the way Chicago suburbs really fit the description of a suburb, I’d say that Dudley and these other New England towns are somewhere in between suburban and rural. Dudley is certainly practically rural in terms of the kind of land and features you see, but the people and the community act fairly suburban. I dunno, maybe I need to go look at the actual definitions of those terms… but some other time, right now I need to sleep, so I can get up early and shower and get to my plane on time.

on music duty

I’m on Mom’s cool little laptop, picking out some more music and taking a break from the family. We have a lot of food. Mom won some sort of “Party for 25″ platter from Roche Brothers and we have about 11 people here… lots of food. Not having to cook took some stress off Mom, though, so that’s cool. I guess she’ll just have lots of leftovers. None of my cousins showed up, again. I think it’s been a couple years since I saw any of them. I put a bulletin out and a mass text message inviting people to Mom’s house to eat some of the extra food, but, so far, no takers. I think it’s time to open gifts and stuff… then eat lots of cookies… then see everyone off and think about getting packed up for my early flight. I think I might’ve had too much coffee tonight.

making a short list, shortening the long list

I’ve said before that I miss the windy hilly roads of New England. I can now make a short list a New England driving quirks that I miss: the need for high beam headlights on those windy hilly roads which lack streetlights, knowing when your crossing a town line by the quality of the plow work on the road, actual rotaries (roundabouts), the sense of urgency drivers feel when a red light turns green that causes them to immediately start rolling forward.

The visit home is going well. I probably won’t make it to the teen center this time around, I’m not going to take a ton of pictures of all my old haunts (which was on my mental list of things to do and not well defined, I think it was a flickr-groups-inspired idea and I can’t think of which groups/themes I had in mind) and I don’t think I’ll be able to fit in hanging out with everyone who wants to, since today is pretty much the only day I have and only Erika has come up with a time and place that works for her… and I pretty much slept the whole morning away. I suppose I could fit some time in with someone around our visit to Karen and the kids in Stoughton, tomorrow… or before dinner time on Monday. Heading out to Worcester this afternoon, most likely, with Mom and her good friend Joyce. I’ll probably take my own car so that I can break off and meet with someone, if they get in touch with me before it runs into my other plans. I guess I should go shower.

I took a window seat, maybe I should’ve taken an aisle

I’ve packed and prepared for my morning plane. This is the first of what will probably be my annual holiday visit to Mom’s. Been a while since I flew. I think I preferred the aisle seats to windows, but the allure of a window seat called to me and I chose one. I’ll just be chilling with my iPod for the whole ride, it’s a pretty short one, if I recall correctly. It’s an entirely different experience than driving out there. I miss seeing Mom; I miss some of my friends… but this definitely feels more like a visit, than a trip “home.” Here really feels like home, now. Sure, I don’t really have a desk of my own and the work situation is still a little more part-time than it should be… but otherwise, things are pretty darn awesome, here. There’s been some tension, but I think it’s related to gifts and the secrecy surrounding them. I’ll be relieved when all the gifts are open and everyone knows what they got and hopefully all the weirdness will blow over. I certainly spent way too much this year, and I know it. All year I spend stupid amounts of money on myself, I need to be able to make up for it during the holidays. I sent stuff to a few people, through Amazon, and got a whole lot for Sarah and her family. I might’ve gone overboard, but I hardly pay anything for my room and board here, so I don’t feel like it’s too much. Besides, I’m a damn good bargain shopper… it’s not like I paid full price for anything.

Anyway, planning on relaxing at Mom’s for a good percentage of my time at home, so I should be able to update a few times. Hope you all enjoy your holidays if I don’t see you!

time for another list(s)

a to do list, for my upcoming trip back east… or maybe a hopefully do, or should do, but might not get to it. We shall see:

√ Dinner @ Mom’s (Monday night)
√ Go to Hava Java (on the way back from the airport, with Mark)
√ Go to Java Hut (for the last time … ::sniff::)
√ Get remaining gifts for people in the area
_ visit the teen center
hang out with:
√ Mark (ride home from airport, no Raianne or Scrabble, though)
√ Kristin
√ Drew (at Numark party)
√ Sara (at Numark party, no Tyler visit)
_ Jess and Erika
√ Karen and Cousin Mark

I guess I also need a packing list. A things not to forget list:

_ Tim Horton’s coffee mug didn’t fit, not important
√ laptop (little one)
√ camera
√ ipod and mount (maybe cupholder-mount)
√ stocking stuffers for Mom’s house
√ phone and charger (both car and home)
√ sunglasses
√ gloves

Ooh, and a things to not forget to bring/ship home list:

√ stocking stuff from Mom’s and other gifts
√ hard drives that need rescuing (out of the barn and shipped to Gillware)
√ Just For Sundae CD (haven’t found it yet)
_ Peggy Lawton cookies, Devil Dogs and other local foods (not this time, I can always get stuff shipped)

I may be adding to this.

edited on 12/25

back east again

I’m about to leave for the second of three overnight Adventure Ed trips, but I wanted to let everyone know that I have officially booked flights and I will be in the New England area from Thurday the 20th of December until Christmas. I leave early morning on the 25th and I have dinner with the family on the Eve, but the rest of my time is pretty open. If you want some, lemme know. I’m also not opposed to some big group shindig thing, some music, a movie, whatever, so feel free to try and plan amongst yourselves. I should have Mom’s Nissan van most of the weekend, so I’ll be mobile and based out of Dudley.

back east trip journal; entry no. 5

And to wrap up, here’s how our super fun-filled labor day weekend went:

Sarah came in to Providence on Friday night, only about twenty minutes late, on an otherwise uneventful flight, save for the sticky floor under her feet.  Once we got her shoes all cleaned off, we headed back to Mom’s, talked a little bit, did some catching up, and then got some sleep.

Saturday was our Woodstock Fair day. We headed down there with Mom, using the back-roads to avoid the traffic, and we snuck in the back entrance to avoid the huge crazy parking lot and crossing the super-busy street. We wandered the fair in a sort of aimless fashion for a while… got a cool gift at a craft tent for some friends of ours who are having a baby soon. We also picked up some cool books at half price… or less … and a lot of yummy food. They had excellent turkey legs and while Mom and I shared blooming onion Sarah and I shared a turkey leg. I got a whole meal out of it. We had some Del’s lemonade, a local treat I had forgotten about. We also got an awesome orange cream smoothie and a delicious cinnamon bun, just before we left. We heard some of the Bangles, but there were no seats left to sit and actually watch. Afterwards, we collapsed into bed and slept most of the afternoon and evening away.

Sunday morning, we headed out to Plymouth and had some breakfast at my Aunt Elizabeth’s house with cousin Mark, Karen and Brian, sister and brother in law, and their kids Jake and Cam. After some yummy waffles and such, we all headed over to King Richard’s Faire. It was a charming little set-up with a lot more shade and trees than the Bristol fair up in Kenosha. It was very similar to that fair, though somewhat lacking in vendors and variety in crafts and wares in comparison. They did have a lot of nice pottery, though, and Sarah and I picked up a couple cool mugs with fish on them. Mark bought one of those hanging Sky Chairs and everyone else got Henna tattoos (except maybe Brian).

Monday, we went to Providence to find OOP. I thought they’d moved to the mall, from Thayer St, so we went there first… but found it all closed up. They guy in Ritz, next door, gave us a pamphlet with their new locations and a $10 coupon… so we took three. We found the OOP on Westminster St and bought a few books, some chocolate band-aids and some neat little planting kits that look like matchbooks. We got some shiny diner breakfast on the way home. I got the car all packed and we collapsed into bed again.

Apparently, I didn’t set the alarm right, and we got up about an hour after we had planned, but we got on the road  within an hour and got back to Illinois before the day was over. Saw a pretty sunset over very flat Ohio. Slowed down a little bit at that silly curve in the highway in Cleveland – otherwise, smooth sailing.

Pictures from the trip are all on Flickr, but I can’t seem to connect to it right now, so I dunno how they look.

back east trip journal; entry no. 4

Tuesday, I hooked up our sweet new toy from the Sony store, the Sony VRDMC5 DVDirect DVD Recorder. It’s a simple, yet effective way to transfer Mom’s VHS stuff to DVD. It has all sorts of nifty features that make it super easy from Sony video cameras, but it works quite well from any video source with composite cables. Its built in software makes a simple menu interface and you can force new titles wherever you want. I got through a Fox News “Zip Trip” to Dudley, but didn’t manage to get to any of the high school performance videos… maybe on Monday?

Tuesday evening, I met up with Erika and Shane. We took a little shopping trip to pick up a remote controlled dragonfly (like this one). Then we headed back to Webster and went to Friendly’s for some dinner and ice cream. I love their peanut butter sauce. I had kinda forgotten how much.

Wednesday morning, I headed out to the Mazda dealership, where we bought the car, for an oil change and tire rotation. I had Kristin with me and we took a walk to Honey Dew Donuts while we were waiting for the work to be done. Honey Dew is the same as I remember it… good competition for Dunkin’, even if it is just in a small regional market. Kristin and I also visited Steve at Toad Hall, and I got my dose of Wormtown music and gossip and such. We also swung through Woonsocket, while we were killing time and I went to Hava Java, where they still remembered my order (six months later). I took a few pictures of a local landmark while we were in the area. That evening, we swung out to the Hockomock Teen Center and saw all the kids who weren’t there on my last visit.

I had no specific plans for Thursday morning until Erika called and asked for a ride to Worcester. She needed a CAT scan because she had sneezed and then gotten a sudden headache and problems with vision and tracking with her left eye. I left her at the huge new “Medical City” in the early afternoon. She was there until 7PM, and they sent her home, but another killer sneeze has made all the pain come back since then. I dunno what her plan is, the big shiny hospital seems useless, from my point of view. On my way out of Worcester, I stopped by a new shiny diner, fairly close to where I used to live. It had a 50s theme and was fairly good.


Name Me?

I ended the night with the only official plans I had for the day – a visit to Sara, my old roommate, and Tyler, the cat. Tyler was as cute sexy as ever and there’s a new kitten, who is being called bit until he gets a permanent name. We watched some awesome TV and had some awesome sandwiches and were entertained by the cats.

This morning, I grabbed a coffee with Mark at Victoria Station in Putnam and then tooled around Webster, chatting with some other local artists and talking about upcoming Webster-Dudley events. Now, I’m trying to decide what to do until I pick up Sarah at 11PM in Providence tonight. I’ve got plenty of options, but no idea which one makes the most sense.




woot